My Big Question

Big questions: Will I and others be able to achieve all the goals (from love to jobs) that we want for ourselves before we die or is that to far fetch? Will we be able to even answer this question right now? Or will I have to wait till my memorial when I am dead to know if I lived my life fully? I might be answering this question myself because it can not be answered unless we have created a time machine. Maybe my ultimate question is that do we all think of this? What do you personally do to not think about "planning" our lives? Are our lives planned out already by a higher power?